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Guitar Pep Talk

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Jak Angelescu

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Hey guys! I posted this video on the riff page the other day but it got removed somehow. I hope I didn’t do something wrong or something. But anyway, this video was inspired by Syn’s tapping lesson post on his social media page and the enormous amount of comments saying things like “I’m not good enough to try.” I posted it on my Instagram in hopes to encourage some of those people to start. I know is long, but I hope some people find it inspiring!!
 

Ed Seith

Supreme Galactic Overlord
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    I remember doing my first “pro studio” demo. After we got the cassettes (yes, I’m dating myself here), I gave one to my parents. I was so proud of myself and my hard work.
    They didn’t even listen to it.
    The package was opened and the lyrics printed inside were read. Mom didn’t like the lyrics of the first song. I DIDN’T WRITE OR SING THE FUCKING LYRICS. She called it trash and put it in a paper trash bag and taped it to my apartment door.
    I never looked for their approval again, but I didn’t give up, either.
    If you want to play, or do ANYTHING. Just. Do. It.
    If you get really incredible at it – awesome. If you get good enough to enjoy and feel good about yourself – even better.
    Rock on, Jak!
     

    Ben Thorpe

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    I’ve had this discouraging feeling before. Once I saw a video of an eight year old kid playing the intro for hail to the king flawlessly. I know they started at a young age and they learn quickly when they’re young, but it just made me think “why do I even bother”. I just avoid videos like that because it just discourages me.
     
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    Jak Angelescu

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    Thank you so much everyone for the kind words and wonderful comments. But I’d like to say something specifically to @BenThorpe. If I know who you’re talking about, there are several things I’d like to say about that kid…
    1. It’s not being played flawlessly. Which is okay because they’re a kid and not a professional player
    2. That kid is a part of one of those “rock schools” where their parents paid for them to be taught songs. These schools are counterproductive (I was a teacher at one for a a while) because the repertoire I had to follow was 95% teaching songs, 5% actual guitar theory and concepts. 99% of these students go on to become stuck in tribute bands or cover bands and because that’s all they can do.
    3. Like Calvin said and like I said in my video, a child has way more free time than a parent does.
    4. Child prodigies these days are not like what Wolfgang Mozart was. Anyone can pick up a guitar and with a proper instructor can learn any song. But Mozart actually WROTE HIS OWN STUFF and was eventually teaching his own instructor at an incredibly young age. When I see an 8 year old composing their first guitar instrumental that takes someone like Papa Gates to court, I’ll call them a virtuoso.
    5. These kids don’t play the song standing up with a live band in front of an audience. Which takes an ENTIRELY different skill. I think it was Ed who said it best, “playing for 30 minutes in front of a live audience with a live band gives you more practice than hours a day in your bedroom.” (Ed, please correct me if I misquoted you)
    Truthfully, the child prodigy race on YouTube makes me sick. It’s nothing but a bunch of parents showcasing their children off to get attention. Notice how the titles are like “8 Year Old Girl BLAZES Through For The Love of God By Steve Vai!! Child Prodigy Stuns Audience!” It’s nauseating really. If it was really about the passion of the child, the title would say something like “My Daughter Plays Hail To The King By Avenged Sevenfold!” It’s like what I get faced with as a female player. I get people on Instagram showing me girls playing (and I already know who most of them are) and the titles say things like “Super Hot Shredder Female!” or “Sexiest and Hottest Female Shredder!” And actually? To be honest? 99.9% of them are incredibly sloppy with poor hand coordination and they don’t write their own stuff. So it doesn’t impress me. Society is really focused on gender and age. I use to teach guitar at a community center for children, and there was only ONE child who seem to adapt to things quickly. As in, the child just learned a basic C chord. I congratulated the child, but I had to ban the parents from the class because immediately they began bragging about their child to the other parents on how their child got the concepts immediately while everyone else struggled. It completely disgusted me and quite honestly, gave me a huge sense of rage, especially since another child quit right after hearing that.
    I am so glad to know that a lot of people here and on my Instagram and YouTube channel found this video helpful because it’s something I feel passionate about. I’m so fed up with the comparison virus in the guitar world. Which, why DO we guitarists get it the most? When I see drummers on YouTube, it’s things like “8 Year old Drummer plays Metallica”. It’s just super basic. I don’t see a lot of competitive behaviors among other instrumentalists.
     

    Noah Berends

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    Oftentimes as well, those “child prodigy” players are one-trick-ponies. Yeah, they can play Eruption, but that’s probably one of the only things they can play. Ask them to come up with an improv solo in the key of G? They’ll probably be stumped. It’s cool that they can play a song like that at a young age, but it certainly doesn’t amount them to a prodigy.
     

    Sayonil Mitra

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    Thanks for this video Jak. I was actually having doubts over what I should do with my guitar in the future? Should I just play it as a hobby? Should I take it more seriously? Though I started playing guitar years ago, I actually realised how much I love it only last year. Some of my friends who I used to jam with inspired me a lot to take guitar seriously, more like a future career prospect than a mere hobby. I told this to my family and they rejected the idea right away. Mom told me that this late realization can not get you any further. Keep it as a hobby. If you want to be in music, you had to start very early, not so late. Go get a job in finance, you will be richer and happier. I don’t know how it sounds. But those words blurred many thinks I wanted to do. From then, I was just pushing myself to just continue with guitar and not waiting for my parent’s approval. But still, the fact that I can not do full time music now and get a job to be financially independent, pay off loans and then go into music seems daunting sometimes. After watching this video and hearing about your struggle, I guess I am less anxious now. I can wait for my time for patiently now.