On the way to the guitar store I was nervous. I went there with my brother because he plays guitar for much longer than I have. It is weird at first. I was afraid that I’d accidentally damage a guitar. My plan was to buy an acoustic guitar and I had thought of 250€, that I wanted to spend on it. At first I was afraid of even tuching a guitar in that store. So I started with a low budget guitar and put it back pretty fast. My brother tried out some too and I found out that I have a different taste in sound than he has. I like it less bright. After trying out some guitars I had found a routine. I knew I wanted an allround guitar. I played some songs I learned back than (one was Seether-Broken). Some acoustic guitars are allmost noisless in the high piched tones (like 15th fret high e string).
After about 3 hours I had two guitars on my short list and I couldn’t deside. The guy that worked there saw it and just played both to me and I knew instantly which was going to be mine. I spend more than 250€ but the 250 € I just had in mind because I had know idea what to expect.
So my advice for you is, set up your mind before you walk into a guitar store. What do you want there? Do you want to buy a guitar? Are you just there to look around? What sort of guitar do you want (acoustic: dreadnought? jumbo?…,with pickup?, electric: double cut, single cut…)? At first you might have no idea. In this case I think you should just try out really different guitars.
When you are at the store think of a testing routine. If you are looking for a electric guitar you can compare the different pickup settings, how the guitar fits to you playing. I went to the store and tried out some single cut and I couldn’t find a nice position for my arm. It just never felt right. When I bought my electric guitar I had no idea how to use the tone, volume ajustment. I was kind of lost but I spend about 8 hours in the store and the people helped me in the beginning. It was exausting and it was fun. I met someone in my sound cabin who told me to play something in Cmaj key and I did and he played a solo over it. It was fun.
So, both times I bought a guitar the first half-hour was awkward and after that it was fun. Just keep doing your thing. As a woman you can feel like an alien because if you are in a guitar store for hours you only see like one or two other female persons!!